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New life requires acceptance
New life requires acceptance
Sermon by Andy Wurm, Sunday after Ascension Day, 24 th May 2020
One of the hardest transitions in life can be the move from the way you want things to be, to the way they are, if they are not the same.
A book about how to be a parent to a teenager says that teenagers are a gift to their parents because they’re trying work out who they are in the world.
They’re a gift because their parents are usually about the age when they are going through the same process again. That’s because the parents are noticing that at least some of their dreams have not come true: thing haven’t turned out as they were meant to.
It’s a good thing to count your blessings. Probably more things go right and work out well than we acknowledge, yet we tend to take that for granted, and would all be happier if we paid attention to
that. That’s a good reason to have rituals for giving thanks for the good things, such as saying grace before meals and thanking God in our prayers. When we take everything that goes well for
granted, we may be ignoring how much others do for us, or the enormity of what is involved, for example, we can only eat a slice of bread because of all the people who grow and process the
grain, and beyond that lies the ecological processes and beyond that, the evolutionary processes.
Failure to express gratitude for good things may make our lives shallow, but failure to acknowledge the bad things can be worse. I don’t mean we should pay attention to every bad thing in our lives. It’s good if we can ignore a lot of that, but I’m referring to things which press on our spirit, such as when our dreams don’t work out, the loss of a job, or house, or money, or
perhaps regrets over something we did in the past. Bad things we have done or things that have happened to us, or have been done to us.
The usual way to deal with disappointments, grief and so on, is to redirect our desire, or let it go.
Benedictine sister, Joan Chittister, always wanted to be a creative writer, but her dream wasn’t granted. Through redirecting her energies, today she is one of the most read writers on spirituality.
When we can’t redirect though, we may have to let go. Let go of the dream, let go of our insistence that we achieve something, or that we be a certain type of person, or let go of our insistence that we be perfect, let go of our expectations of others. It’s good to want others to be their best, but we can take that too far, expect too much, and we all want others to treat us well, to be good parents, siblings, friends, partners or just human beings, but we’re all flawed, no-one is perfect.
It’s important that we continually forgive each other, because we all fall short of perfection. It helps to assume that others are as likely to be as imperfect as we are.
Letting go isn’t always easy when we’re dealing with something that really matters to us. I knew someone whose marriage had ended. She met a new man, but didn’t feel comfortable marrying him. She was stuck because she was holding on to two good things: one was her belief that marriage should be for life and the other was that she found a good bloke and wanted to marry him. She felt torn over which one to give up. I suggested neither.
In the New Testament, there are two Greek words which get translated as forgiveness, but neither of them actually mean what forgiveness means in English.
One means to set free from debt, as in forgive us our debts (in one version of the Lord’s Prayer).
The other means to walk on by and leave behind your obligations to act.
This was the case when the Greeks spoke of divorce as
‘forgiving a marriage’. In neither sense does forgiveness mean what the other person has done to you is to be forgotten. The emphasis is on setting the other (and yourself perhaps) free.
This means that forgiveness of others (and ourselves) allows us to continue holding the values we do, even as we release the other (or ourselves) from the consequences of failing to uphold them.
That woman could continue to believe that marriage is meant to last forever, while at the same time letting go of not achieving that, and then was free to marry her new man.
One of the strongest motivations for letting go of disappointment is that we get tired of it. The son of a mass murderer in England came to a point where he was tired of hating his father, despite what he’d done. It’s amazing how far we can go with this sometimes though – how weighed down we can be, how angry we can be, how much grief we can carry, before we are willing to let go.
Even dying may not be enough to force us to let go! A woman told me her dead husband kept appearing to her until she told him she had to go on without him.
Sometimes we need others to help us see that we have held on to something or someone for long enough.
Letting go is not always the answer though, in fact, I’m not sure it really ever is. Instead, what is needed is acceptance, which is like letting go, except that we retain something important about
what or who we were holding on to, and it is that which allows us to move on.
For example, when someone who is dear to us dies, we don’t want to let go of them, but if we ‘give them to God’, we haven’t really let them go, because through God, we remain connected to them. Wherever God is (which is everywhere), they are too, so instead of letting go, we are accepting that things are different. That doesn’t take away our grief, but may help us to grieve. We leave them ‘in God’s
hands, always close to our hearts’.
Last Thursday was Ascension Day, celebrating Jesus’ ascension into heaven. (see Acts 1:6-14).
Jesus rises into the sky, symbolically portraying his passing into heaven (for it’s a state not a place). That means he will no longer be present to his disciples in one place and one time, but will
be present in all places and times, and therefore always available as the divine Spirit within them.
It is because he will be with them in this new way that his disciples can cope with the loss of his old form of presence. They aren’t letting him go. They are accepting that what he was before will become something new. Giving him to God is allowing him to become more present to them. The one who was significant to them in times and places past, is freed from that, to become significant to them in an eternal sense.
In the same way, when we accept things in our lives that are not as we wish them to be, it allows them to be freed from the significance they had at one time and place, to acquire a new, eternal significance.
In that, the past, the person, the dream, even the mistake or failing, is not lost, but out of it, God creates something new for us.
That means a person is not someone who is just a successful writer
in spirituality, but a successful writer who once wanted to be a creative writer. Someone is not just a single person now, but someone who lost a partner, yet carries on. Those losses, wounds,
regrets, even failings, aren’t gone, they’re transformed, just as Jesus, present with us as the living Spirit of life, still bears the scars of crucifixion. Those things which we so wish weren’t in our lives,
are an important part of us. They help make us who we are, and are transformed into blessings if we can accept them, which is what allowing them to ‘ascend into heaven’ means.
Ascension Day Service Online
We celebrate the Patronal Festival of the Church of the Ascension in Aldgate, South Australia with a Liturgy of the Word.
Please watch the video of the Service.
The Service Sheet is below.
What we believe can make us more or less receptive to God
What we believe can make us more or less receptive to God
Sermon by Andy Wurm, Sixth Sunday of Easter, 17th May, 2020
Some years ago, a six year old girl named Lulu wrote a letter to God and asked her parents to post it. Being atheists, they struggled to know how to respond. In the end, they sent it to the Archbishop of Canterbury, at that time being Rowan Williams.
Lulu’s letter went like this: ‘To God, how did you get invented? From Lulu xo’.
This was the Archbishop’s reply: Dear Lulu, your dad has sent on your letter and asked if I have any answers. It’s a difficult one! But I think God might reply a bit like this –
‘Dear Lulu – Nobody invented me – but lots of people discovered me and were quite surprised. They discovered me when they looked round at the world and thought it was really beautiful or really mysterious and wondered where it came from. They discovered me when they were very very quiet on their own and felt a sort of peace and love they hadn’t expected.
Then they invented ideas about me – some of them sensible and some of them not very sensible. From time to time I sent them some hints – specially in the life of Jesus – to help them get closer to what I’m really like. But there was nothing and nobody around before me to invent me. Rather like somebody who writes a story in a book, I started making up the story of the world and eventually invented human beings like you who could ask me awkward questions!’ And then he’d send you lots of love and sign off. I know he doesn’t usually write letters, so I have to do the best I can on his behalf. Lots of love from me too. +Archbishop Rowan
Lulu’s father said he was touched by this more than he would have imagined. His scepticism about religion and his cynicism about the Anglican Church, didn’t dissolve, but he said that these things were quite easily put to the side in the face of the Archbishop’s kindness and wisdom. He had won his respect. As for Lulu, the letter went down well. She particularly liked the idea of ‘God’s story’. Although she said she had very different ideas, she thought the archbishop’s ideas were good.
A good thing about others asking about God, is that it’s a chance to clarify what God is for us. That was the case for St. Paul, upon finding an altar to an unknown God in Athens (Acts 17:22ff). Paul begins his response by noting how ‘extremely religious’ the people of Athens were, thus respecting their openness to more than they already understood or accepted, although his comment that they were ‘extremely religious’ can also mean ‘superstitious’. Such intentional ambiguity would be appropriate in regard to our society too, where religion is very much alive and well, yet much of it is of questionable value. I’m not just talking about organised religion, but all that functions in a religious manner, such as sport, nationalism, and worship of the self, for example. Paul uses the opportunity of the altar to an unknown god to introduce his beliefs about God to the people of Athens, and we are given the condensed version of his speech. Paul may have been simply trying to win people to his cause, but probably not, for there is much more at stake in sharing religious beliefs, e.g. in those days Christianity offered a way of deliverance from at least some forms of oppression. Beliefs can change lives.
There are situations in which it is appropriate for Christians to challenge existing beliefs or practices, but perhaps the most important contribution of Christian belief to our society is the simple sharing of ideas for people to consider. In this way people don’t ‘get’ converted, but may convert themselves (not necessarily to following Jesus, but converted to the same values he held). That doesn’t necessarily mean arriving at particular beliefs, but hopefully becoming more human.
The example of Lulu and the archbishop is a good one, where neither she nor her parents finished up believing what the archbishop believed, but did change their beliefs or their attitudes in response to his. And he no doubt, was affected by Lulu’s invitation. This is why often when we read scripture, the best outcome may be not what answers or further insights we get, but what questions are raised for us. Rather than being filled with more information, our minds and hearts are stretched.
When it comes to believing in God, there isn’t really one view, even within Christianity, so it’s pointless asking exactly what it is that Christians believe. In the bible, even within a single psalm, there can be contradictory statements about God. For this reason, Christianity isn’t so much a set of beliefs about God, as a set of rules to guide our formulation of beliefs about God. The church is therefore the community of people who use those rules. Like a game of footy, even though everyone plays by the same rules, it doesn’t mean their experience will be the same.
Beliefs are not the most important thing though. What matters most is how we act (for ourselves and also in relation to others) as well as how we connect with God, however, as six year old Lulu knew, what we actually believe still matters. If we are going to pray, for example, we need a God we are comfortable praying to. So, what rules help us believe in a God we are comfortable with? And by comfortable, I include room for a degree of discomfort, in the same way that a relationship with someone you love includes being challenged to become more.
When it comes to rules for shaping beliefs, the number one rule for me is the notion that here is only one God. The importance of that is that if there’s only one God, then there are no other gods, which means God has no competition. If that’s the case, then has God has no opponents which threaten, so God is therefore not against anything or anyone, either needing to remove them or defend against them. In short, God does not engage in rivalry. That means God’s love is for all. God is not on anyone’s side more than anyone else’s, although people may put themselves offside with God by engaging in rivalry themselves. If God does not engage in rivalry, then our value and the meaning of our lives are set, and we have no need to compete with others or pursue approval from others. We are free to be what God created us to be and free of our need for everything and everyone to be as we want. There is nothing we can do to make ourselves loved more by God, so we are free of guilt and shame for our shortfalls and also free to make mistakes as we explore how to be human with each other.
God’s unconditional love both exposes how we are caught up in rivalry and sets us free from it. If we are truly open to what that means, we must accept that we share in the human condition with every other person, and so in regard to our standing before God and our worth as individuals, we are no better than others, and those we judge worse than ourselves are not judged in that way by God. For that reason, by engaging in rivalry with them through our judgement, we close ourselves off from God’s love and the freedom it empowers us with. By judging others, we make judgement the source of our value and meaning. And in so doing, have moved away from belief in one God to idolatry.
Giving up our engagement in rivalry and allowing ourselves to be set free from its grip on us, does not mean that what we do and what others do doesn’t matter. We still have to find ways of responding to abuse and oppression that lessens harm and requires responsibility be taken, but that is different to judging the worth of ourselves and others, and the meaning of our lives.
Believing in Jesus is inclusive living
Believing in Jesus is inclusive living
Sermon by Andy Wurm, Easter 5, 10th May 2020
It’s funny that these days, Christians find ourselves criticised for our beliefs by atheists, because one of the criticisms levelled at the early Christians was that they were atheists! They were considered atheists because they didn’t worship the gods which were popular in the Roman Empire at that time. They were also considered abnormal, due to misunderstandings about the nature of their worship and practices.
Today, those who are antagonistic to Christianity are more likely to see our beliefs as quaint, rather than atheistic. Ironically, many who consider themselves to be atheists, could be accused of being religious, because they engage in rivalry, which is a central feature of classical religion. It is we Christians who are more like atheists, because the God we believe in is nothing like the gods of classical religion, or the cultural alternatives, which function like gods.
Christians have not been free of engaging in rivalry though, despite the fact that our founder revealed it as the cause of the world’s problems. Since we are human, we face the same struggles as anyone else, but we should be at least committed to repenting of it. One way that Christians have and some still do engage in rivalry is to identify themselves as being different to those who are not Christian. Sometimes this develops into a sense of superiority. It can be in the form of judgementalism, including the belief that non-believers are going to hell. But perhaps the most dominant form is the desire to make everyone else like them, into Christians. All this, it seems, can be justified by the Bible, and especially today’s gospel passage (John 14:1-14).
Jesus’ words, I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me, seem absolutely exclusive. It’s hard to take that as anything else than that you have to be Christian to connect with God. And to reinforce that, Jesus talks about going to prepare a place for us (believers) in his Father’s house. In other words, when we die, we’ll go to heaven. Right? No. That’s not what he means. In fact, Jesus doesn’t actually mention heaven, so he’s not talking about when we die.
When we use this passage to claim any sort of superiority over others, or that in any way, we have something that others don’t, which makes us special, it completely contradicts everything Jesus stood for. Jesus didn’t say ‘I was friendly with people who were outcast, I was compassionate to those who were rejected by others, I was forgiving to people who’d done wrong, I ignored cultural differences and gender stereotypes, now forget all that, and judge people, condemn people for not being like you, tell people God is against them’. And Jesus didn’t die on the cross to free humanity from rivalry so that we could engage in rivalry by defining ourselves as not like those who are different to us. This is why it’s so inappropriate to use this passage to create a division between those of us who follow Jesus and those who don’t.
There is actually a great paradox here. As Christians, we repent of rivalry. We try not to let our lives be run by competition against others, wanting what they have or what they are. We try not to understand ourselves in terms of being different to others, not like that person, or those people. Especially, the gospel tells us not to understand ourselves as being unlike those society deems to be sinners. This is fundamental to being Christian. So, that makes us different to the rest of society (generally speaking), because the rest of society believes in rivalry. It values punishment for sinners, judgement of people who hold politically ‘incorrect’, or socially ‘incorrect’, views, it rewards those who get ahead of, or on top of, others. So, we are different in that way. But here is the great paradox: because we see forgiveness as being broken out of rivalry, we therefore have no need to define ourselves by how we differ from others. The more we live in the way that makes us different to mainstream society, the more we should see ourselves as the same as fellow human beings, and the more we should identify with them. That’s what Paul alludes to when he says that in Christ there is neither male nor female, Jew or Gentile, and we would add that in Christ, there is neither Christian or non-Christian. To be Christian and yet define yourself as unlike others because of it, is contradictory. Paradoxically, it is our very exclusivity which makes us so absolutely inclusive. We exclusively follow Jesus, who includes everyone in his embrace.
And what is Jesus’ embrace? It is God’s embrace. Philip says to Jesus ‘can you please show us God?’ Jesus replies that God has been with you all along, you silly man. This is what God looks like: someone enjoying meals with the respected and the outcasts, someone caring about those who are down and out and including those who are rejected. God looks like someone who is not interested in religion, custom or tradition which makes people into the acceptable and not-acceptable. And then ultimately, we know, and Jesus flags this by saying he’s ‘going to the Father’, this is what God looks like: a human being who will go to the cross for others. There is God and there is God’s embrace.
What then is Jesus talking about, when he mentions his Father’s house? The only other time he mentions his ‘Father’s house’ is when he’s talking about the temple in Jerusalem. So that’s what he’s talking about here too, but remember he said he’d tear that down and rebuild it in three days, which is his way of saying that instead of God coming into the world through the temple, God would now come into the world through him, for he would be the new temple. So Jesus becomes his ‘Father’s house’. But wait there’s more! Now he’s saying there are many dwelling places in his ‘Father’s house’. That means there’s lots of room in him. Room for what? Room for us, of course. Not just room for us to enjoy something others don’t have, but room for us to be what he is. In other words, for us to become him. So as Christians, we are becoming the artist formally known as Jesus, who was himself, the artist previously known as Yahweh. In other words, we are the body of Christ.
How profound is that!! We tend to put Jesus up on a pedestal. He’s the one we look to, as our saviour and example. And that’s okay, because we need that, but only so we can become what he is, by imitating him. That’s why at every Eucharist, we proclaim that we are the body of Christ.
This whole thing, about Jesus being the way to God and so on, is really saying something very concrete about us: that we are becoming the ‘place’ where people can meet God, but that only happens to the extent to which we imitate Jesus, which means repenting of rivalry, and instead of seeing ourselves as different to those who don’t follow Jesus, we identify with them. There is no them and us, only we. This movement towards others is the opposite of seeing ourselves in any way superior to others, or needing to make them like us. When Jesus says that later, people would do even greater works than he did, he’s alluding to how creative we can be when free of rivalry. This includes new and creative ways of working together, finding ways of appreciating one another, new ways of dealing with conflict. We know what it’s like to live with rivalry and conflict, but living without them is an unknown and can only evolve as we go. For that reason, sometimes the best way is to start with symbolic actions, such as washing others’ feet, passing peace to one another, sharing bread and wine or sharing Zoom worship together.
Believing in Jesus is inclusive living
Believing in Jesus is inclusive living
Sermon by Andy Wurm, Easter 5, 10th May 2020
It’s funny that these days, Christians find ourselves criticised for our beliefs by atheists, because one of the criticisms levelled at the early Christians was that they were atheists! They were considered atheists because they didn’t worship the gods which were popular in the Roman Empire at that time. They were also considered abnormal, due to misunderstandings about the nature of their worship and practices.
Today, those who are antagonistic to Christianity are more likely to see our beliefs as quaint, rather than atheistic. Ironically, many who consider themselves to be atheists, could be accused of being religious, because they engage in rivalry, which is a central feature of classical religion. It is we Christians who are more like atheists, because the God we believe in is nothing like the gods of classical religion, or the cultural alternatives, which function like gods.
Christians have not been free of engaging in rivalry though, despite the fact that our founder revealed it as the cause of the world’s problems. Since we are human, we face the same struggles as anyone else, but we should be at least committed to repenting of it. One way that Christians have and some still do engage in rivalry is to identify themselves as being different to those who are not Christian. Sometimes this develops into a sense of superiority. It can be in the form of judgementalism, including the belief that non-believers are going to hell. But perhaps the most dominant form is the desire to make everyone else like them, into Christians. All this, it seems, can be justified by the Bible, and especially today’s gospel passage (John 14:1-14).
Jesus’ words, I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me, seem absolutely exclusive. It’s hard to take that as anything else than that you have to be Christian to connect with God. And to reinforce that, Jesus talks about going to prepare a place for us (believers) in his Father’s house. In other words, when we die, we’ll go to heaven. Right? No. That’s not what he means. In fact, Jesus doesn’t actually mention heaven, so he’s not talking about when we die.
When we use this passage to claim any sort of superiority over others, or that in any way, we have something that others don’t, which makes us special, it c0mpletely contradicts everything Jesus stood for. Jesus didn’t say ‘I was friendly with people who were outcast, I was compassionate to those who were rejected by others, I was forgiving to people who’d done wrong, I ignored cultural differences and gender stereotypes, now forget all that, and judge people, condemn people for not being like you, tell people God is against them’. And Jesus didn’t die on the cross to free humanity from rivalry so that we could engage in rivalry by defining ourselves as not like those who are different to us. This is why it’s so inappropriate to use this passage to create a division between those of us who follow Jesus and those who don’t.
There is actually a great paradox here. As Christians, we repent of rivalry. We try not to let our lives be run by competition against others, wanting what they have or what they are. We try not to understand ourselves in terms of being different to others, not like that person, or those people. Especially, the gospel tells us not to understand ourselves as being unlike those society deems to be sinners. This is fundamental to being Christian. So, that makes us different to the rest of society (generally speaking), because the rest of society believes in rivalry. It values punishment for sinners, judgement of people who hold politically ‘incorrect’, or socially ‘incorrect’, views, it rewards those who get ahead of, or on top of, others. So, we are different in that way. But here is the great paradox: because we see forgiveness as being broken out of rivalry, we therefore have no need to define ourselves by how we differ from others. The more we live in the way that makes us different to mainstream society, the more we should see ourselves as the same as fellow human beings, and the more we should identify with them. That’s what Paul alludes to when he says that in Christ there is neither male nor female, Jew or Gentile, and we would add that in Christ, there is neither Christian or non-Christian. To be Christian and yet define yourself as unlike others because of it, is contradictory. Paradoxically, it is our very exclusivity which makes us so absolutely inclusive. We exclusively follow Jesus, who includes everyone in his embrace.
And what is Jesus’ embrace? It is God’s embrace. Philip says to Jesus ‘can you please show us God?’ Jesus replies that God has been with you all along, you silly man. This is what God looks like: someone enjoying meals with the respected and the outcasts, someone caring about those who are down and out and including those who are rejected. God looks like someone who is not interested in religion, custom or tradition which makes people into the acceptable and not-acceptable. And then ultimately, we know, and Jesus flags this by saying he’s ‘going to the Father’, this is what God looks like: a human being who will go to the cross for others. There is God and there is God’s embrace.
What then is Jesus talking about, when he mentions his Father’s house? The only other time he mentions his ‘Father’s house’ is when he’s talking about the temple in Jerusalem. So that’s what he’s talking about here too, but remember he said he’d tear that down and rebuild it in three days, which is his way of saying that instead of God coming into the world through the temple, God would now come into the world through him, for he would be the new temple. So Jesus becomes his ‘Father’s house’. But wait there’s more! Now he’s saying there are many dwelling places in his ‘Father’s house’. That means there’s lots of room in him. Room for what? Room for us, of course. Not just room for us to enjoy something others don’t have, but room for us to be what he is. In other words, for us to become him. So as Christians, we are becoming the artist formally known as Jesus, who was himself, the artist previously known as Yahweh. In other words, we are the body of Christ.
How profound is that!! We tend to put Jesus up on a pedestal. He’s the one we look to, as our saviour and example. And that’s okay, because we need that, but only so we can become what he is, by imitating him. That’s why at every Eucharist, we proclaim that we are the body of Christ.
This whole thing, about Jesus being the way to God and so on, is really saying something very concrete about us: that we are becoming the ‘place’ where people can meet God, but that only happens to the extent to which we imitate Jesus, which means repenting of rivalry, and instead of seeing ourselves as different to those who don’t follow Jesus, we identify with them. There is no them and us, only we. This movement towards others is the opposite of seeing ourselves in any way superior to others, or needing to make them like us. When Jesus says that later, people would do even greater works than he did, he’s alluding to how creative we can be when free of rivalry. This includes new and creative ways of working together, finding ways of appreciating one another, new ways of dealing with conflict. We know what it’s like to live with rivalry and conflict, but living without them is an unknown and can only evolve as we go. For that reason, sometimes the best way is to start with symbolic actions, such as washing others’ feet, passing peace to one another, sharing bread and wine or sharing Zoom worship together.
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There is no death in God
There is no death in God
Sermon by Andy Wurm, Lent 5, 29th March 2020
For today’s sermon, I’m going to walk through the gospel passage for today – John 11:1-45, commenting as I go.
Now a certain man was ill, Lazarus of Bethany, the village of Mary and her sister Martha. Mary was the one who anointed the Lord with perfume and wiped his feet with her hair; her brother Lazarus was ill.
It’s interesting that we haven’t got to the part of John’s Gospel which tells of Mary anointing Jesus with perfume, yet he refers to it as having happened. This shows how the gospels are not meant to be read as historical documents, in the sense of this happened and then that. It also shows how often something only makes sense in the light of what comes later, and this is definitely so with this entire story. In mentioning Mary’s anointing of Jesus, the gospel writer alludes to what Mary was doing in that anointing. In one way, it was pointing to what was to come: Jesus’ death, but on another level, it was a response to Jesus as the presence of God, who is constantly flowing out of him/herself as generous love. Mary mirrors what she sees in Jesus. Only after the resurrection will she realise that she can do more than mirror that. She can be a source of generous love too, and in fact, that is actually the point of her life. That is what Jesus alludes to when he later tells his disciples (and John passes on to us!) that they will do greater works than he did.
So the sisters sent a message to Jesus, “Lord, he whom you love is ill.” But when Jesus heard it, he said, “This illness does not lead to death; rather it is for God’s glory, so that the Son of God may be glorified through it.”
The word ‘glory’ doesn’t mean ‘fame’, which would mean this is happening to make God more famous, rather ‘glory’ means reputation. To see the glory of God then, is to see what God is really like. In other words, this event, of Lazarus’ death, will show what God is like.
Accordingly, though Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus, after having heard that Lazarus was ill, he stayed two days longer in the place where he was. Then after this he said to the disciples, “Let us go to Judea again.”
It’s odd to say that even though Jesus loved Martha, Mary and Lazarus, he didn’t bother to go and see them when they needed him. That’s because there’s a mistranslation. The gospel writer doesn’t say though Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus, but because Jesus loved them. The translators couldn’t bring themselves to say that Jesus intentionally didn’t go to see them, because they can’t see why he would do that. After all, he’s so caring, and isn’t this story about how much he cared? Well, it is, but his caring is far deeper than for Lazarus and his sisters. If this event is to show us what God is like, then Jesus must wait for Lazarus to die before he goes to him. This is not a random act. Jesus never does random. All his actions have a purpose.
The disciples said to him, “Rabbi, the Jews were just now trying to stone you, and are you going there again?” Jesus answered, “Are there not twelve hours of daylight? Those who walk during the day do not stumble, because they see the light of this world. But those who walk at night stumble, because the light is not in them.”
In John’s Gospel, Jesus isn’t tempted by the devil in the wilderness. This is John’s temptation scene. The disciples tempt Jesus to avoid danger and thus give up on his mission. Rejecting their suggestion reinforces his sense of purpose. Later, the phrase ‘come and see’, usually used for others to come and see Jesus, reinforces the fact that he is discerning his purpose. Now is the time for him to act.
After saying this, he told them, “Our friend Lazarus has fallen asleep, but I am going there to awaken him.” The
disciples said to him, “Lord, if he has fallen asleep, he will be all right.” Jesus, however, had been speaking about his
death, but they thought that he was referring merely to sleep. Then Jesus told them plainly, “Lazarus is dead. For your sake I am glad I was not there, so that you may believe. But let us go to him.” Thomas, who was called the Twin, said to his fellow disciples, “Let us also go, that we may die with him.”
Jesus explains that Lazarus really is dead. Whatever he does for Lazarus shows what God does with death, and will encourage belief in him. This will not be a miracle though. It is not even to be an amazing event. Later in the gospel, Lazarus is mentioned amongst guests at a party. No-one even bats an eyelid that someone who died is alive again. That’s because this is not about Lazarus, but what God does with death.
When Jesus arrived, he found that Lazarus had already been in the tomb four days. Now Bethany was near Jerusalem, some two miles away, and many of the Jews had come to Martha and Mary to console them about their brother. When Martha heard that Jesus was coming, she went and met him, while Mary stayed at home. Martha said to Jesus, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.
Martha is not happy with Jesus. She redirects her grief onto him, blaming him for her brother’s death. How often does grief become the funnel for other emotions? Sometimes people allow loss and grief to define who they are and what they do – like Captain Ahab and the great white whale.
But even now, (Martha goes on,) I know that God will give you whatever you ask of him.” Jesus said to her, “Your brother will rise again.” Martha said to him, “I know that he will rise again in the resurrection on the last day.” Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. Those who believe in me, even though they die, will live, and everyone who lives and believes in me will never die. Do you believe this?” She said to him, “Yes, Lord, I believe that you are the Messiah, the Son of God, the one coming into the world.”
Whatever the resurrection and the life is, it is not just a future thing. Jesus emphasises “I AM the resurrection and the life”, meaning I am that for you now. The same is true for us, Jesus can raise us to new life, here and now.
When (Martha) had said this, she went back and called her sister Mary, and told her privately, “The Teacher is here and is calling for you.” Martha doesn’t understand what Jesus is talking about, so she pretends he wants to talk to her sister.
And when (Mary) heard it, she got up quickly and went to him. Now Jesus had not yet come to the village, but was still at the place where Martha had met him. The Jews who were with her in the house, consoling her, saw Mary get up quickly and go out. They followed her because they thought that she was going to the tomb to weep there. When Mary came where Jesus was and saw him, she knelt at his feet and said to him, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.”
Mary repeats what Martha says to Jesus, but in a different tone. Kneeling at his feet, as one who learns from a teacher, indicates she is open to the possibility of there being more going on than she realises.
When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who came with her also weeping, he was greatly disturbed in spirit and deeply moved. Jesus said, “Where have you laid him?” They said to him, “Lord, come and see.” Jesus began to weep. So the Jews said, “See how he loved him!”
This is the key line in the whole story. It seems that Jesus is showing empathy for those he loved and then expressing his love for Lazarus, but that’s not the case. There is something far more profound going on here. We’re told that Jesus cried, while everyone else was weeping. Two different Greek words are used here. They’re not the same thing. The weeping of Mary, Martha and everyone
else, is ritual wailing, which would have been led by professional mourners. There would have been
some grief being expressed, but it was much more than that. That’s what Jesus was crying over. And he was also crying because he knew that what was going on in that ritual response to a death, would lead to his being killed. The job of professional mourners was to stir up grief. Especially in a case where someone was killed by the Romans. They would stir up feelings, encouraging hatred, emphasising enmity. It’s a practice that still works today. In 1989 Slobodan Milosevic got his Serbian people all riled up by digging up the casket of a 600 year old Serbian commander who had been killed in battle by their ethnic neighbours. That drove them to a war of ethnic cleansing, in which they killed thousands of people. It makes me wonder what our nation is doing with Anzac Day commemorations. Is there more going on than just honouring those who died, or reminding ourselves of the cost of war? And why did we spend 170 times as much commemorating World War One, as the French did, even though they lost 28 times more soldiers than we did? The bible tells us that death is an intrinsic part of human (fallen) culture. The rivalry that leads to it and the rivalry it creates forms and strengthens our sense of who we are. You might say ‘but as Christians, don’t we make an individual’s death define who we are?’ The Crusaders definitely did that. They rallied soldiers to the cause around the fact that the Muslims had taken control of the holy sepulchre (the supposed grave of Jesus). But they overlooked the fact that the grave was empty, which completely reverses the possibility of using death and sacrifice to justify being against others. It undoes all that.
We are told that Jesus was greatly disturbed in spirit and deeply moved, but that’s a mistranslation. What it says in the Greek is that he snorted angrily and shuddered. That is the divine response to human culture which is so bound to death.
I have mentioned a few examples of being bound to death in order live. Also what comes to mind is how much death features in so many of the stories of our culture – in books films, television and games. Death is a key part of them. We might think they are just stories, but there is only so much death in our stories because it is culturally significant. One reason Jesus died is to undo our holding on to death and undo our fear of death. He could only do that by dying and then coming back to life. That makes sense for our fear of biological death, but this is not only about that. It is also to do with killing and sacrifice involving being against one another, being jealous, being threatened, being in rivalry. By raising Lazarus to life, Jesus is showing us God is profoundly NOT involved in death. That includes all that is oppressive and life-denying. It’s when we use religion, or laws, or anything else in our culture, to deny life, rather than help it flourish. This story tells us that death, which we think is integral to our lives, does not have to be. I have highlighted some of the ways we allow that to be, but there is much more, for example, what does it mean for biological death to mean nothing to God? The answer to that, and realising that life without the rivalry that leads to death and which creates death, is possible, is what radically changed the lives of the early Christians. It was the way they began to live completely unthreatened by others and be able to forgive and love them, that the writer of John’s Gospel refers to as ‘believing in Jesus’.
It was a cave, and a stone was lying against it. Jesus said, “Take away the stone.” Martha, the sister of the dead man, said to him, “Lord, already there is a stench because he has been dead four days.” Jesus said to her, “Did I not tell you that if you believed, you would see the glory of God?” So they took away the stone. And Jesus looked upward and said, “Father, I thank you for having heard me. I knew that you always hear me, but I have said this for the sake of the crowd standing here, so that they may believe that you sent me.” When he had said this, he cried with a loud voice, “Lazarus, come out!” The dead man came out, his hands and feet bound with strips of cloth, and his face wrapped in a cloth. Jesus said to them, “Unbind him, and let him go.” Many of the Jews therefore, who had come with Mary and had seen what Jesus did, believed in him.
Liberating Bushes in a Time of Restriction
Yesterday I liberated our woolly bushes from the temporary fence which has stood behind them while they grew to hedge height. Today I pruned them so that they wouldn’t droop under their own weight of undisciplined growth.
Both actions symbolized for me some inner longing.
Acting on that impulse gave me a sense of hope and meaning in this time of coronavirus restrictions and losses.
I had gone to sit on the deck behind the woolly bushes and their fence, where I tried to pray and meditate. After dissolving in tears for all that we are missing in our religious and communal life at present, I had this sudden urge to take away the fence that separated me from the woolly bushes.
What did that action represent? I guess I was feeling restricted, like the woolly bushes trying to poke through the gaps in the stiff ugly temporary fence and growing distorted in the process. Mind you, when I took away the fence, the branches fell about in all directions, hence the pruning of the next day. Now the growth is slightly reduced but shaped to come together in a more connected, upstanding and graceful way.
Is that what will happen for us and our churches in this time of restriction? The Archbishop sounded a similar note in an email letter to clergy, in which he urged us not to combat anxiety or to justify our existence by making ourselves overly busy. Instead he suggested that we might be refreshed and inspired if we find time to read, reflect, and pray. In other words, prune back the excesses and encourage centred growth.
The encouragement to take time for spiritual disciplines and refreshment applies to us all. Maybe people in the wider society might feel the need for spiritual meaning and refreshment themselves. In part, my urge to liberate the woolly bushes expressed a desire to be more in touch with the beauties of the created world which refresh and inspire me.
Although we can’t meet for worship on the last Sundays in Lent, or, more devastating still, for Holy Week and Easter Sunday, perhaps we are being guided to enter more deeply into the spiritual disciplines of Lent, to share in the passion of Christ played out in our world, and to wait eagerly for new life to emerge from an empty tomb. There are signs already of how the restrictions placed upon humanity may mean revival in the created world: pollution lifting over Italy with few people using vehicles, and dolphins and fish returning to the canals of Venice. Maybe liberating woolly bushes is symbolic of increased world-wide awareness of the need for revival of creation by the restriction of the rampant overgrowth of human exploitation of natural resources for profit. Suddenly we are also made uncomfortably aware of how quickly shortages can occur when people are greedy and don’t think of others.
So what has liberating woolly bushes got to do with Jesus raising Lazarus, or the prophet Ezekiel calling on the dry bones to connect and stand up, ready for the breath of the Spirit? Both those stories are about liberation from death, loss and grief, and coming forth into renewed life empowered by the Spirit of God. When I saw that these were our stories for this Sunday, I was moved by how powerful they were to offer hope in this pandemic.
Reading how Jesus shouted loudly to Lazarus: “Lazarus, come out!”, I longed for Jesus to shout: “People of God, come out!”
We were already shut away by those who think we are a dying breed. The instruction to “Unbind him and let him go!” seems even more poignant, as we feel ourselves to be bound and hampered without our communal life. How changed was Lazarus by his experience? Who might we become if our time of loss shapes and disciplines us? Mind you, there was no easy road ahead for the revived friend of Jesus.
When the story spread, and more people believed, the chief priests and the Pharisees plotted to kill not only Jesus, but Lazarus as well. We don’t know the outcome of that for Lazarus. How would you feel having been restored from death to find yourself threatened with death again soon after? Such could well be the case for humanity if those in authority refuse to admit the need for change.
The story of Lazarus began with Jesus delaying his departure to go to his friends in their time of need until after Lazarus is dead. Both Martha and Mary reproached him with this delay, saying: “Lord if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” Sometimes we feel that God is absent in the worst of times, or that God fails to act to save us from anxiety and sorrow. Yet the suffering we experience prompts us to call on God with great intensity as the psalmist does in the first verse of Psalm 130: “Out of the depths have I called to you, O Lord: Lord, hear my voice.” There is something powerful and necessary in waiting for God that makes us more aware of how important God is to us. Verses 5 and 6 evoke that intense longing for God that causes us to look for the coming of a new day:
“I wait for the Lord, my soul waits for him: and in his word is my hope. My soul looks for the Lord more than watchmen for the morning, more, I say, than watchmen for the morning.”
Let me share with you some quotes from Brian McLaren’s book Naked Spirituality. Those of you who received Richard Rohr’s emails this week will recognize what McLaren says:
“When we call out for help, we are bound more powerfully to God through our needs and weakness, our unfulfilled hopes and dreams, and our anxieties and problems than we ever could have been through our joys, successes, and strengths alone. . . .”
Later McLaren writes:
“Along with our anxieties and hurts, we also bring our disappointments to God. If anxieties focus on what might happen, and hurts focus on what has happened, disappointments focus on what has not happened. Again, as the saying goes, revealing your feeling is the beginning of healing, so simply acknowledging or naming our disappointment to God is an important move. This is especially important because many of us, if we don’t bring our disappointment to God, will blame our disappointment on God, thus alienating ourselves from our best hope of comfort and strength. . .”
Returning to the story of Lazarus, I find another insight related to what McLaren says about naming our pain: it’s necessary to grieve, to share in the general pain of loss even if we do hope for restoration.
Some of the most moving verses in Scripture are verses 32 -36 of John 11: “When Jesus saw her weeping and the Jews who came with her also weeping, he was greatly disturbed in spirit and deeply moved. He said, “Where have you laid him?” They said to him, “Lord, come and see.” Jesus began to weep. So the Jews said, “See how he loved him.” It’s necessary to see, and to weep. That’s an expression of love.
I struggle with the call to see and to weep. I want to avoid seeing and I don’t want to weep, afraid of being overwhelmed. But Ezekiel could not channel the Spirit to raise the dry bones until he was transported to the valley, and until he was led around and saw how many and how dry the bones of the people of Israel were. The Spirit says: “Mortal, can these bones live?” and the prophet answers, “O Lord God, you know.”
Many churchgoers must be asking “Can these empty churches live?” Our humble answer must be, “O Lord God, you know.” Then we may be given words to speak or write, invoking the renewal of form and life.
Perhaps like the liberated and pruned woolly bushes, new growth and purpose will come to us. Perhaps, as in the passion, death and resurrection of Christ, new life will only come on the other side of the cross. Then we may hear our equivalent of what God says to the revived people of Israel: “I will put my spirit within you, and you shall live, and I will place you on your own soil; then you shall know that I the Lord, have spoken and will act,” says the Lord.
If Christ could weep
If Christ could weep
If Christ could weep for friends, for death, for grief,
and still call out to one entombed: “Come out!”,
so we can grieve at this pandemic thief,
and still expect to hear or voice that shout,
and in the valley of dry bones, prepare
to fill our lungs with Spirit wind and cry:
“O dry bones, hear the living word and dare
to rise from that parched earth on which you lie.
Connected, lifted up, await the sigh
of Spirit wind to stir to life your breath!
For Christ could weep and pray his fate passed by,
avoiding suffering, sparing him from death,
but sharing all with us, he dared the cross,
and from his tomb, new life sprang out of loss.
Barbara Messner March 2020